Wanted to put this on here because even though I've never met any of you,with the exception of reggie😉Its like I do know a lot of you from chatting on here buying stuff etc.i said to mark(hammertime)the other month I've never met you but you always know what will fit me lol.
Anyway,the last 18 months have been shit,not as much for me but my Mrs and my children.
First of all the Mrs lost her dad,massive heart attack,next 7 months later her step mum found dead in bed on holiday in Egypt,next her auntie died of sepsis,and now on top of all that today her mum.diagnosed with bladder cancer😢she has been unwell for a few months but this news today is hearbreaking,she is having a scan tomorrow to see if it's spread.
Like I say it's obviously worse for my Mrs and my kids losing grandparents and another one now seriously ill.
Just wanted to share this cos like I say you lot do feel like mates😊
Surely she must be due some better news soon,think she's had enough shit for anybody to deal with.
Anyway thanks if you read this boys👍👍

Hope it turns for you and yours soon.

Your due some good luck pal that’s for sure cos that is one shit run of bad luck.. hope everything turns out as well as it can with your lass’s Mam

That is a terrible 12 months mate but you have to stay strong for your lass and the family. Hopefully the mother-in-law can win the battle and get back to full health.

Her luck will change mate, nothing ever stays the same. Sure you will but keep your chin up , you have to be the rock they all cling to , fingers crossed that her luck changes. You'll all get through it I'm sure

Hope things take a turn for the better pal 👍🏼

Bad form that john hope things work out for your mother in law..

Horrible news

Keep your chin up for the Mrs and bairns mate

Good luck wor kid

John
we lost the Father in law suddenly in October mate so have a smaller scale idea of what's happening with you and your mrs. As Sean says, life can be a right cunt at times.
All I do is focus on helping with practical things that I know allows the Mrs to focus time/effort on her mum. Little things add up mate because ultimately, you can't bring the loved ones back but you can help her deal with it in little ways. Your mother-in law has a tough road ahead but positivity goes a long way. people do beat this cunt of a disease so keep upbeat outwardly no matter how you feel personally inside.
And come on here and throw up a thread or PM anytime you wanna chat mate. Nothing worse than bottling things up.

Really hope the luck turns J

Awful run of bad luck for your family mate. Best wishes to you and yours and of course to your mother-in-law.

Bit of an update,mother in law was due for her op 3 weeks ago,but went for her pre op tests and they found a heart murmour,couldn't make it up one thing after another,so she had to have a heart scan because wouldn't do op til found out how serious that was,had that last week and said it was nothing to worry about so cancer op could go ahead.
In this morning for the op and she eventually got results of the scan they did about a month ago and the fantastic news is no secondary masses so they will remove the one in her bladder today,give her a drug to kill any remaining cancer cells and then hopefully be all clear👍👍best news ever,as you can imagine Mrs is so happy,let's hope now it's a load of good luck instead of the shit for last 18 months.

sounds very positive, excellent news

Just seen this thread J, it'll turn round mate, always does but sometimes it takes fucking forever doesnt it. Fingers crossed for you & yours pal 👍

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Bit of an update,mother in law was due for her op 3 weeks ago,but went for her pre op tests and they found a heart murmour,couldn't make it up one thing after another,so she had to have a heart scan because wouldn't do op til found out how serious that was,had that last week and said it was nothing to worry about so cancer op could go ahead.
In this morning for the op and she eventually got results of the scan they did about a month ago and the fantastic news is no secondary masses so they will remove the one in her bladder today,give her a drug to kill any remaining cancer cells and then hopefully be all clear👍👍best news ever,as you can imagine Mrs is so happy,let's hope now it's a load of good luck instead of the shit for last 18 months.

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Great stuff son

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Top news mucka👍

Great news mate

Great news john MOT😊

smashing John. Glad to hear it mate